The second commandment in the set that deals with man’s relationships with his fellowman is, "Thou shalt not kill" (Exod. 20:13). Insight into the meaning of this commandment is found in connection with the instruction concerning the cities of refuge (Num. 35:9-34). Refuge was provided for one guilty of manslaughter, that is, one who killed "any person unawares" (verse 15) or by accident. However, no refuge was available to one who killed a person on purpose:"The murderer shall surely be put to death; . . . the revenger of blood himself shall slay the murderer" (verses 16-21).
Further insights are found in Exod. 21. "He that smiteth his father or his mother shall be surely put to death" (verse 15). This refers to purposeful striking of one’s parents, without death necessarily resulting from it. The penalty is much more severe for smiting parents than for smiting_but not killing_another person (verses 18,19). God seems to emphasize here, as He did in the fifth commandment, the honor and respect that should be given to one’s parents, by declaring that one who smites his parents must be put to death. It is a grievous offense, akin to murder as we can see from the context of this verse. Nor is the offense limited to physical smiting, but includes verbal smiting as well. "He that curseth his father or his mother shall surely be put to death" (verse 17). This word "curse" means to revile or speak lightly or disparagingly of others. This should serve as a solemn warning to young people today. No laws, in western nations at least, cover such an offense, but God takes notice and is not mocked (Gal. 6:7).
"He that stealeth a man, and selleth him, or if he be found in his hand, he shall surely be put to death" (verse 16). Here we find that taking away another person’s freedom_selling him into slavery_is akin to murder. Causing another person to lose his/her freedom by falsely accusing of a crime would seem to fall into the same category.
"If an ox gore a man or a woman that they die, . . . [and] if the ox were wont to push with his horn in time past, and it hath been testified to his owner, and he hath not kept him in, but that he hath killed a man or a woman, the ox shall be stoned, and his owner also shall be put to death" (verses 28,29). This indicates that we are responsible not only for our own behavior but for the behavior of our animals, and, no doubt, for the condition of other property of ours (such as icy sidewalks) that could, through our carelessness, cause injury to others.
So, the intent of this sixth commandment is not simply to keep us from going out and murdering another in cold blood, but to impress upon us not to be negligent with our animals and other property in ways that might cause a person to be hurt, not to physically or verbally abuse our parents, and not to take away another person’s freedom.
The intent of this commandment is further elaborated on and explained by the Lord Jesus in His Sermon on the Mount:"Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not kill; and whosoever shall kill shall be in danger of the judgment; but I say unto you, that whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment; and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council; but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire" (Matt. 5:21,22). The Pharisees may have prided themselves in never having committed the physical acts of murder, adultery, stealing, etc. But Jesus points out here that the mental attitude and emotional feelings that usually precede the outward physical act, and often are present without the physical culmination, are just as offensive in God’s eyes as the act itself. Here the emotion of anger, the attitude, "I could just kill that man for what he did to me," is condemned as much as is murder itself.
But what about that little clause, "without a cause"? "When I get angry there is always good reason for it," you might say. Is there?? "And besides, Jesus got angry sometimes, so why shouldn’t I?" Yes, indeed He did. In fact, if we want to find out what are acceptable reasons and just causes for getting angry, we do well to review those episodes in Jesus’ life. The first is found in Mark 3:1-5:"And He entered again into the synagogue; and there was a man there which had a withered hand. And they watched Him, whether He would heal him on the sabbath day, that they might accuse Him. . . . And when He had looked round about on them with anger, being grieved for the hardness of their hearts, He saith unto the man, Stretch forth thine hand. And he stretched it out, and his hand was restored whole as the other." Here Jesus got angry when He saw the hardness of heart of the people, and their tendency to find fault and accuse when He was doing His Father’s will and manifesting divine power. For a second example of Jesus’ anger, we read:"And Jesus went into the temple of God, and cast out all them that sold and bought in the temple, and overthrew the tables of the moneychangers, and the seats of them that sold doves" (Matt. 21:12,13; John 2:14-16). Here Jesus manifested anger because the people had defiled His Father’s house. "Ye have made it a den of thieves" (Matt. 21:13); "Make not My Father’s house a house of merchandise" (John 2:16). Perhaps a third example of the anger of Christ is found in his pronouncement of an eight-fold "woe" upon the scribes and Pharisees because of their hypocrisy.
Now, let us ask ourselves honestly, in the presence of God:"Are these the types of reasons I have for becoming angry?" Is it because of our grief for how our heavenly Father is being mistreated by others that we get angry? Would that this were more often the case! Are not the chief reasons for our anger rather that our pride has been wounded, our feelings have been hurt, our (supposed) rights have been violated, our dignity has been trampled on, our judgment has been questioned, our opinion has been mocked?
We get angry at our children. Why? Is it not generally because they have inconvenienced us, broken or messed up something of ours, or caused us embarrassment? It is well to remember that Jesus reserved His anger for hardness of heart_an established pattern of rejection of His deity and God’s authority in His life; for their dishonor of His Father; and for their hypocrisy_pretending to be godly but living anything but godly lives.
Jonah "was very angry" (Jon. 4:1). Why? Because "God repented of the evil that He had said that He would do unto them"; He did not destroy Nineveh after all. Jonah was also angry when the plant that sheltered him from the sun withered away. The Lord had to ask Jonah twice, "Doest thou well to be angry?" (4:4,9). Jonah had a selfish heart. He was happy for God’s grace to himself but not for God’s grace to others. He became angry when things didn’t go the way he wanted them to, even though others were blessed thereby. Jonah was all backward_with his eyes focused on himself rather than on God_in his anger. Much of the time it is the same with us.
The Lord Jesus never became angry because of the way He, personally, was treated by others. We are, in fact, invited to "follow His steps. . .who, when He was reviled, reviled not again; when He suffered He threatened not; but committed Himself to Him that judgeth righteously" (1 Pet. 2:21-23). On the occasion of Christ’s greatest sufferings at the hands of man_falsely accused, unjustly convicted and sentenced, betrayed by one disciple, denied by another, and forsaken by all of them, shamefully mocked and reproached, cruelly tortured, made a public spectacle, and joined in crucifixion with real criminals_do we hear the slightest hint of anger on His part? Does He complain, "They are treating me like a common thief"? Does He threaten, "I’ll get even with you for this"? No, rather, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do" (Luke 23:34). He was true to that which He had enjoined upon us, His disciples:"Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you and persecute you" (Matt. 5:44). As we grow to be more like Christ, we should seek to be changed along these lines, and thus find ourselves less often becoming angry "without a cause."
Along with getting angry, calling one’s brother "Raca" (empty-headed or intellectually worthless), or, even worse, "fool" (morally worthless) are offenses classed in the same category as murder. It is not physical murder but rather the destroying of another’s self-esteem or reputation that is in question here. Man (men, women, and children) has been created in the image and likeness of God (Gen. 1:26,27); each individual is very important to God and highly esteemed by God. We are to recognize this by placing a high value upon each and every one of our fellow men, women, and children_ be they our relatives, our brothers and sisters in Christ, our fellow workers, our neighbors, or even our enemies. The apostle Paul sums up this topic well by enjoining, "Let each esteem other better than themselves" (Phil. 2:3).
What if I am already alienated from a brother or a neighbor because of anger or some other offense on my part?
The Lord Jesus concludes this section of His sermon by enjoining quick reconciliation of those who are alienated. If it is a brother in Christ (Matt. 5:23,24), we should seek to be reconciled before engaging in any public act of worship, seeing that, as we learn more later in Paul’s Epistles, our public worship of God involves our communion with the other members of the body of Christ, the Church. Thus, I cannot properly join with my brother in worshipping God if we are alienated from each other. Another reason given for our quickly seeking reconciliation (this time more likely involving one who is not a brother in Christ), is that if we don’t, we may end up in a court of law and have a severe penalty to pay (verses 25,26).
Let us each take time now to take inventory of our relationships with others. Are there any with whom we are not on speaking terms, or whom we carefully avoid at all costs because of an unconfessed hurt or offense or angry blowup? If so, let us first confess our wrong_both our initial offense and our pride in not confessing it sooner_to the Lord and receive His forgiveness (1 John 1:9). Then, with our pride properly judged, let us confess our wrong to the one whom we have offended. It will not be easy. But think of Christ who paid a great price_"the blood of His cross … to reconcile all things unto Himself" (Col. 1:20). We may have to pay a different kind of price_the giving up of our pride and self-defense and self-justification (all terribly important to one’s natural self)_in order to achieve reconciliation. But once having done it, we will be able to look back with joy and satisfaction on what we have done.
Lord willing, we will continue our study of the sixth commandment in the next issue by considering what the Scriptures have to say on a number of special topics of relevance today, including abortion, suicide, capital punishment, serving in the armed forces, and protecting ourselves and our loved ones from attackers.
FRAGMENT An old Maori woman had won the name of "Warrior Brown" because of her fighting qualities. She was converted, and gave her testimony to a group gathered in her old haunts of sin, when some foolish person hit her a nasty blow with a potato. "Warrior" picked up the potato without a word and carried it home. When the harvest festival came, "Warrior" brought a little sack of potatoes and explained that she had cut up and planted the insulting potato, and was now presenting the Lord with the increase.
FRAGMENT One foot may strike the other, the tooth sometimes bites the tongue, and many a person has put his finger in his eye; and these things cause pain. But there is forgiveness, and each member has patience and sympathy for the other, or the body could not continue. There should also, therefore, among the children of God, be reconciliation, forgiveness, unity, love, and good will.
Martin Luther