(Luke 11:5-8; 18:1-8, 10-14)
All of these parables teach us something about prayer. The parable of the three friends (Luke 11:5-8) is included in a passage on prayer given in answer to the disciples’ request, Lord, teach us to pray. First the Lord Jesus gave what is usually called the Lord’s prayer which tells us what to pray for. Then He gave this parable that tells us how to pray, that is, persistently and boldly. After all, it takes a certain amount of boldness to go to someone, even a friend, at midnight, knock on the door, and ask for food to give to another friend. God wants us to pray like that _ to ask, seek, knock (verse 9), be persistent, be bold (not irreverent, but not timid either). The friend really wanted the bread, so he persisted until he got it. If we really want something we will continue to pray until we get it. If we don’t really want it, why bother to ask God for it at all? We know God hates lukewarmness (Rev. 3:15, 16), so we can understand that He wants us to pray as though we mean it.
The parable of the importunate widow (Luke 18:1-8) is similar in emphasis to the one about the three friends. The widow persisted until the ungodly judge finally agreed to provide her legal redress. God is not unrighteous; prayer does not persuade Him to do something He had no intention of doing before the praying began. However, God wants us to continue to pray about a matter until the prayer is answered. If our requests are righteous, we can be assured that God is going to act on our behalf.
While the two parables we have just noticed tell us how long to pray about a matter (until God answers), the parable of the Pharisee and publican (Luke 18:10-14) tells us what kind of prayer it is that God is likely to answer. The Pharisee’s prayer was a prayer of pseudo-thanksgiving. I say "pseudo" because he gave God no credit for any of the good things in his life. The implication is that he had done it all himself. We can be thankful if our sinfulness has not reached the depths it might have, but it has been the grace of God which has restrained us, not any innate goodness of our own. Thanksgiving is a proper and necessary part of prayer, but the Pharisee expressed no sense of need whatsoever. How could God answer the prayer? The Pharisee did not ask for anything, did not even hint that he needed anything. Even his thanksgiving left God out. No wonder the Lord said that the man "prayed … with himself."
The publican’s prayer, while short, says a great deal. He was saying that he was sinful and God is holy; and because God is holy, He is not going to look with favor on sin and is going to punish the sinner. It is necessary to obtain God’s mercy if one is going to avoid eternal disaster. God is always ready to answer a prayer like that _ one that acknowledges the need of the one praying, and the absolute dependence upon God to meet that need.
Let us be diligent and fervent in our prayers and let us remember how needy we are. Our sense of need will lead us to persevere in prayer, for we will realize that God is the only One capable of meeting our need and that we must continue to seek His help, for there is no other resource.
FRAGMENT
Prayer is the contrite sinner’s voice, returning from his ways;
While angels in their songs rejoice and cry, "Behold he prays!"