Question:
People facing peer pressure must ask themselves some questions. “Isn’t being accepted by the Beloved more desirous to me than being accepted by man?” “Why would I have a need to change my testimony for someone else?” “What do they offer me?”
Answer:1 Corinthians 15:33: “Do not be deceived: Bad company corrupts good morals.” Also, Exodus 23:2: “You shall not follow the masses in doing evil, nor shall you testify in a dispute so as to turn aside after a multitude in order to pervert justice.” Most of the people in the group came to the conclusion that peer pressure wasn’t in the form of a greasy, tattooed man trying to get you to smoke, but much of it was taking place among Christians—pressuring you to not act a certain way that you feel led to. Peer pressure may not always cause harm, but it is getting used to doing what people want. It is important when choosing friends to choose friends who want to serve the Lord. As you grow as a Christian, fear will be easier to leave behind. The new man doesn’t need to be accepted by the world. To fear is against his nature. If you don’t give in to pressure the first time, but do so later, you will be a hypocrite. When you stand up and do what is right, it makes positive peer pressure. Let people know where you stand. Start praying for the person’s salvation and you’ll change the way you think about them, and you won’t be afraid of them. After resisting pressure, you have a responsibility thereafter; they will be looking for a fault. You will win their respect by not giving in to their pressures. There are some friendships that won’t work out; you’ll have to leave. There was a quote brought up: “Let me see your friends, and I’ll tell you what you’ll turn out like.”
“How do you regain your reputation in someone’s eyes after giving in to ungodly pressures?” Jesus restored Peter after he denied Him. Luke 22:62 says, “And he went out and wept bitterly.” Confess what you did wrong, and turn from it. 2 Corinthians 7:9,10: “I now rejoice, not that you were made sorrowful, but that you were made sorrowful to the point of repentance; for you were made sorrowful according to the will of God, so that you might not suffer loss in anything through us. For the sorrow that is according to the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation, but the sorrow of the world produces death.” In John 21:15 Simon tells the Lord that he loves Him, and the Lord tells him, “Tend My lambs.” It’s encouraging because after we fail, He can still use us.