Question:
How do you help someone who said they were saved but then turned from God because of something that happened?

Answer:
“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God” (Romans 8:28). “The trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth” (1 Peter 1:6-8). “Casting all your care upon Him; for He careth for you” (1 Peter 5:7).

Can we blame God? Look at Jonah and Job for examples of those who had it harder than we do, and the Lord used their trials to teach them valuable lessons, which is what He wants to do for us. Maybe we are like Martha who asked: “Lord dost thou not care?” (Luke 10:39, 40). Martha was serving the Lord and still blamed Him. She was distracted with much serving, and needed time with the Lord, too. But in all of this, Martha did the right thing to come to the Lord with her problem.