Question:
Is it wrong to question God on something that goes on in our lives?

Answer:
We should not question “why” God has allowed a certain thing to happen to us, for we know that His love for us could not allow anything in our lives but what is for His honor and glory and the eventual blessing of His people. “And we [do] know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. . . . to be conformed to the image of his Son” (Romans 8:28, 29). The Spirit of God tells us that the Lord “having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end [right through everything]” (John 13:1).

But we should ask Him to show us what He wants us to learn from the experience, and we should pray to Him with our feelings, telling Him honestly what we feel. “Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need” (Hebrews 4:16).