Question:

I really love this girl, but she doesn’t love me. What should I do?

Answer:
As a way to help answer this question, other questions were put to the young men: Why do you want a girlfriend?  Is it for companionship, to show off, or just to be able to say that you have a girlfriend? What should you look for in a girlfriend? 

Personality, sense of humor, beauty, Godliness? Lastly, the advice was given that you should draw closer to the Lord and accept His will for your life…even if it means you will never be married.

Genesis 2:18 – “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”

A few extra comments that were made:

·         A wife is to be a helpmeet (a helper in your life for the Lord)

·         Matrimony is ordained by God

·         Marriage is for better or worse (and there will be both in a marriage)

·         Marriage is one man married to one woman for life

·         Before marriage, participate in group activities to avoid possible problems created by being alone with the opposite sex